You'll understand the title when you watch this short clip. Gary Vaynerchuk talks enthusiastically about doing what you love. I'm all for that. I believe what he says is true, for the most part, but here's the thing...
What if all I want to do is write a book? I don't want to freelance. I don't want to copy write. I don't want to work at a newspaper and write bland, formulaic articles. All I want to do is write a book. How is that going to pay my bills? How am I going to eat for the next 3 years? Yeah, I could go home and tell my boyfriend, "Hey babe, I'm going to quit my corporate job so I can stay home and work on my books. Will you pay my bills and pretty much everything else? That would go over well. So what's a girl like me to do?
For the time being, I am content with juggling the corporate ladder and my dreams. I don't hate my job, and it allows me time to do the things I love, so I can't complain. But I do long for the day when I can leave it all behind and focus on what really drives me - writing. I still won't write newspaper articles, though.
What do you think? Do all these talks about "living your dreams" get on your nerves sometimes?
2 comments:
You will find that working and writing actually helps the creative juices flow. I am writing a book too, and have worked on it for a couple of years.
But I am now home all the time and find that people try to take advantage of me because they think I do nothing all day. My sister calls and asks me to bring her lunch. My Mom will ask me to ride with her to Wal-Mart..
When I was working outside the home, I wrote on my lunch hour and my breaks. It seemed more structured.
I am learning how to have structure again though. I am learning to say no.
You will figure it out..
xoxo Nita
Maybe once your first book is written, it will be A HIT with English teachers all over the world...and then you WILL be able to stay home and write your other books!!!
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